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Dear Ezra: Month Thirteen

  • Tagged The kid, The letters
  • Commenters satya from india

Dear kiddo-

Your thirteenth month started out with a face full of frosting and ended with a night screaming under the stars. In between you travelled to Minnesota to see some friends and somewhere along the way you decided to wave goodbye to crawling, a chump’s way of getting around. Instead of taking a few steps, falling down, and then crawling to the next vertical structure, you push up to a squat, lean back to shift your center of gravity over your feet, and stand. I remember when you figured it out: you were in the pool in Northfield, and you saw Eleanor do it, and with the buoyancy of the water on your side, you solved the puzzle. It’s been a parade of walking ever since.

Street scene

You don’t quite walk normally yet — it’s more of a waddle. Nor are you very fast, which is just alright with me. You amble along, stopping from time to time to take in your surroundings. I suppose it’s still a bit of an effort, given that your legs are still pretty short (and chubby). I imagine that chub is on its way out, with all the new calories you’re burning. Maybe this also means you’ll stop getting called a “she” on the street. (Or maybe that has more to do with your handsome, flowing locks that we just can’t bear to snip.)

On the rocks

You and I have developed a few new habits in the last month. My favorite one is the post-bathtime routine. First, I position the towel on the toilet seat, then hoist you up and sit you down on top. In the few seconds before I wrap you up, you always look down and get to work inspecting your goods. Hey, who can blame you? Second, after I do make a little baby burrito out of you, I stand up and you immediately lunge your body toward the mirror. You love looking at that cutie on the other side, knocking your head against his, and occasionally giving each other kisses. Again, who can blame you?

The other routine is my doing — biking. I’ve been dead-set since you were born to get you on the bike, but safety concerns and chilly weather have made me wait until your 1st birthday to get it going. In the meanwhile, I bought us a new city cruiser bike and a kiddie seat for you. In the last few weeks we’ve taken a bunch of trips together, and it’s as lovely as I hoped it’d be. Except for a little fidgeting with your helmet, which you’re still getting used to, you are your regular, calm, observant self. My only gripe is that I have no way to interact with you, with me up top and you down in back. But I imagine that’ll it change once you start chatting.

Ezra

Not that you don’t like to chat already — it’s just that you’re still on your own language, composed mostly of “yeah”, “no”, “ga”, “ba”, and, I swear to god, clicks. I’ve never seen a baby click like you can, a skill that you seemed to pick up out of nowhere. Your word vocabulary, meanwhile, hasn’t grown much, though we do have evidence that you’re learning. During our recent camping trip, you and mom were in one part of the lake and I in another. You caught sight of me, screamed a really loud “DADA!” and started waving. It was an awesome little teaser for the days to come, which I both can’t wait for and hope to stave off as much as possible, so I can enjoy the adorable thirteen-month-old you for a little longer. But that’s why god invented summer, and that’s why you and me and Mom will always try to squeeze every last drop out of it.

Much love,
DADA

Mama and son

Posted by sarah on 23 Jul 2010

Rough night at the campsite

  • Tagged The travelling, The kid
  • Commenters satya from india, Bonnie, sarah

We just got back from our first camping trip with toddler Ezra, and we have the scars to prove it.

I blame the mosquitoes for everything. They were vicious. Twice as much rain as usual bred twice as many mosquitoes at Lake Kegonsa, and the campsite was swarming with them. Within minutes, my feet and ankles were welted and itchy, and the buzzing of bugs in my ears was making me feel a little insane.

At one point, I looked over at Ezra and saw three mosquitoes resting on his face, and without a second thought, reached over and slapped him, hard, on the cheek to get them off. I slapped my baby, you guys. That’s how crazy these bugs were making me. And you know it’s a bad night when slapping your baby and making him cry is definitely not the low point.

Posted by sarah on 9 Jul 2010

Swimming

  • Tagged The kid, The travelling
  • Commenters lee

A few years ago, on our road trip, we discovered the beauty of stopping at hidden beaches, tiny swimming spots known only to locals. We swam in tiny Minnesota lakes, Canadian cave lagoons, and upstate New York waterfalls. We haven’t done much of that kind of thing since Ezra was born, and so we decided to find us some swimming holes during our Wisconsin/Minnesota vacation last week.

Whitewater lake

On the first day, we stopped at Whitewater Lake in Wisconsin, a postage stamp of a strip of sand. The waiter at the restaurant where we asked for directions wondered what we had against the larger, more developed Lake Geneva, and we couldn’t really answer, just knew we’d prefer to stop somewhere small and hidden away. While Sandy floated away on an innertube, Ezra and I dug holes in the sand, and were entertained by an eight-year-old girl doing magic tricks (“See all this sand in my hand? Now I’ll just put my hand under the water and….it’s gone!”)

Posted by sarah on 5 Jul 2010

Northfield

  • Tagged The travelling, The kid
  • Commenters (None yet)

Ellie & Ezra

After a mini Wandering Weiszes style road trip through Wisconsin, we arrived on Thursday in Northfield, Minnesota, home of our friends Dan, Emily, and Ellie.

Northfield is not strengthening my case against Sandy’s not-so-secret desire to move out of the big city and into a smaller town in the upper midwest.

Posted by sandor on 27 Jun 2010

The orator

  • Tagged The kid, The talking
  • Commenters (None yet)

Ezra really wants to talk. So what he does instead is open his mouth and emit whatever noises he can persuade his underdeveloped voice box to produce. We find this hilarious and endlessly entertaining, since it gives us the uniquely parental opportunity to speak for him. Scenes like this happen dozens of times per day:

Ezra: “BabababmamamamaYAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH”
Sarah (in Ezra voice): “I have some very important things to say about the situation in the rainforest!”
Ezra: “HA. Pffffttttthhh. Mmmmmwaawaawaa!”
Sarah: “But I can’t remember precisely what it was about.”
Ezra: “Wawawaaaaaaahhhhhh. OOOOOOOwa.”
Sarah: “Probably monkeys.”

Yesterday afternoon we met up at a bar with my cousin Mike to watch the USA-Ghana game, and Ezra came along for the pre-game show and a few minutes of action. He was pretty easygoing and quiet right up until Ghana scored, which pulled some kind of trigger and made him turn him into something of a baby vuvuzela. I was giggling along with him, until I realized, oh yeah, people are trying to watch a game here, and they probably don’t find this kind of babble endearing. (You’d be surprised how quickly this filter breaks when you become a father.) Time for cheering buddy to go. I’m pretty sure the quick exit soured him and caused him to put a curse on the American team.

Posted by sarah on 20 Jun 2010

Dear Ezra: Month Twelve

  • Tagged The kid, The letters
  • Commenters Satya from India, Maureen Kelleher, cousin caroline, Syd Lieberman, sarah, Anne

Dear Ezra,

A year. A whole year!

One year ago, I woke up, as I had for weeks, heavy and uncomfortable. It had finally gotten hot after a cold spring, and your dad suggested we go to the pool to cool off. I waddled there slowly on swollen feet, and then I lowered myself into the cool water and you and I floated together for a while, turning and rolling and kicking.

Posted by sarah on 16 Jun 2010

Oh, no

  • Tagged The kid, The new tricks
  • Commenters Megan, Nana Adrienne

For weeks I’ve been wondering about Ezra’s first words. He sort of says Mama, but only as a long, pitiful wail when he’s really upset. He was working on Daddy for a few days, but didn’t really use it to call out to or refer to his Daddy.

Then, a few days ago, I noticed a funny thing he was doing. He started to say “no,” while shaking his head. So I countered with an emphatic “yes,” while nodding, and he mimicked me (though his version is more of a “yeh”). We went back and forth all day, practicing Yeses and Nos. He started playing a hilarious kind of duck-duck-goose variant with us, faking us out with, “Yeh, yeh, yeh, yyyyyyyyy —- NO.”

In hindsight, I should perhaps have shut this down, rather than abetting it, because, Ladies and Gentlemen, Ezra has his first word, and it is NO.

“Yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyea. #secondword”

Tweeted by ezra on 16 Jun

“Nnnnnnnnnnnnnnno. #firstword”

Tweeted by ezra on 15 Jun

Posted by sarah on 14 Jun 2010

A hard week

  • Tagged The kid, The parenthood
  • Commenters Victoria L., Dana, Lynne, Gram Amy, sarah

This week has been one of the hardest I’ve had as a mom. Ezra is teething, and I think this time it’s one of his molars. He’s in a lot of pain, and is, for the first time basically ever, inconsolable. The other night, after a month of sleeping through the night, he cried for over an hour, despite me going in to nurse him over and over again.

All his favorite foods have taken turns making him furious. He has eyes only for rice cakes. Delicious, vitamin-free rice cakes. Meanwhile, he’s developed a biting habit, nipping me hard on my shoulders, neck, collarbone, even my legs. I’m starting to be careful about how I embrace my little hugger, wondering when the teeth will sink in.

Last night, after another rough bedtime, complete with Ezra refusing to nurse, crying through his bedtime story, and then demanding angrily to nurse as if I hadn’t just offered, I burst into tears and wailed to Sandy about how terrible everything had become.

“What's all this talk about an Ezra Stanley Cup? Did I win something?”

Tweeted by ezra on 11 Jun

“Mom & Blueberries are the worst. Crackers are stupid. Cheese is gross. I hate toys. Please hug me while I whimper inconsolably. #molars”

Tweeted by ezra on 10 Jun