Small victories
Here are some things I’m really enjoying right now:
- Playing Scramble
- Playing Mario Kart
- Sewing this top
What do these things have in common? I’m not really terribly good at any of them. I’m not bad at them. I’m just really rough around the edges. I get lots of words in Scramble, but miss tons of really obvious ones (oh, you mean you can put an S on the end and make another word? seriously?). I’m not bad at solid ground road races, but give Baby Peach a cliff/bridge/wall/platform to fall off of, and I’ll spend the race repeatedly plunging her off. And I totally made a sample mock-up of the top, but one of the sleeves is on backwards and inside out.
I certainly don’t love all things that I’m not too good at. Several years ago I played El Grande one time, was terrible at it, and vowed never to play it again. I refuse to play Werewolf. So I’m trying to figure out what separates the pastimes I’ll persevere in versus those I drop immediately.
I think the key is that I like things I can pull apart to find small wins. Single awesome long words I found. Single races won. Sleeve on backwards? Bah. Look at this cool ruffling thing I did on the neck!

Sarah,
You’ve never played Werewolf with me! You should totally play Werewolf sometime when I can play, because I don’t lie when playing Werewolf, leading to wonderful Prisoners’ Dilemma-style doublethinking on the part of opponents.
Not to say I win all the time, but I’m at least consistent. I imagine you’d be very good at the game.